Minsan nagtatanong tayo, bakit sa matagal na relasyon kailangan pa ring maghiwalay? Minsan naman makikita mo silang sweet.. tapos makikita mo the other day may kasama ng iba… anu nga ba ang dahilan? Bakit ganun? Maraming iba’t ibang rason bakit nagkakahiwalay yung dalawang tao….Kahit pa siguro mahal pa ng isa yung isa, there is no use kung patuloy kang magmamahal sa taong wala nang nararamdamn sa iyo.. lalo ka lang masasaktan kung ipipilit mo yung sarili mo sa taong yun…meron naman mahal ka nga nya, pero hindi naman na siya masaya sa relasyon nyo… kumbaga naghahanap ka na ng bagong happening sa buhay..kesa naman mag pretend ka na mahal mo pa yung tao,, maganda siguro kung maghiwalay na lang kayo ng maaga, mahirap naman kasi kung ang maramdaman mo sa kanya bandang huli ay awa…mas masakit yun sa part nya..ayaw mo syang iwan at masaktan dahil sa naaawa ka sa kanya.. di ba mas maganda kung iiwan na lang siya at least kahit masakit sa part nyo pareho, you did the right thing. Magtatagal nga kayo hindi naman dahil mahal mo siya kundi naaawa ka sa kanya. Mas madalas na dahilan ng paghihiwalay is yung third party sa isang relasyon…siyempre napakasakit ng iwan ka dahil sa third party… lalo na mahal na mahal mo yung isang tao, tapos malalaman may iba syang boyfriend/girlfriend.. and the worst is iiwan ka nya dahil sa third party na yun..wala ka naman magagawa pag iniwan ka…ayos lang na iyakan mo siya, pero isang beses lang..kasi masyado siyang tanga para iwan ka.. wala na ring dahilan kung hahabulin mo pa sya.. magkakabalikan nga kayo.. pero palagi mong maiisip na lolokohin ka nya uli..Mahirap na kasi ibalik yung tiwalang sinira nya..kahit mahal mo pa yung isang tao, pero wala ka nang tiwala.. it’s useless di ba?? you have to let go kahit gaano mo pa siya kamahal darating din naman yung time na makakalimutan mo rin siya. Marami talagang dahilan bakit tayo iniiwan.. minsan hindi natin maintindihan… Basta kung mangyari man sa atin yung ganitong sitwasyon.. magpasalamat na lang tayo dahil naging bahagi nag buhay mo yung minahal mo..tsaka isipin mo na lang na may ibang plano si Lord para sa atin…You have to let go.. once you let go.. you must learn to accept.. forgive..forget..to move on.. just cherished those happy memories nung kayo pa…Be brave to face the consequences na darating sa buhay mo..Sigurado naman na makakatagpo ka rin nang taong “destined to love you forver” and lastly don’t forget to Pray kay God.
there are certain reasons y we have to let go of that "someone"...masakit tanggapin oo...pero let's face it...pag di ka natutong mg let go...pano ka pang makaka move on...kelan ka pa matutong mg move on...pag malalim na ba ung sugat...un bang kulang na lang ay ialay mo ang lahat sa kanya and yet he still takes u for granted...tsk tsk tsk...aantayin mo pa bang magmistula ka na lang na bulag at tanga forever...
kaya habang kaya mo pa...habang maaga pa...habang ala ka pa sa stage na to...let go...
i have been doing lots of sacrifices in this relationship of ours...pero i think...napapagod din ang puso magmahal...nakakapagod din po mg antay kung kelan cia available for you...though u do love each other so much...having a relationship doesnt mean na isa lang ang dapat kumilos para mg work out to...it always takes two to tango...that's y its called a relationship...u have done ur part...then let him do his' kasi pg hindi...he'll always be dependent on you...which is bad for a relationship...kc teamwork yan e...
sensya na po s post...
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SEX IS EVIL, EVIL IS SIN, SINS ARE FORGIVEN, SO SEX IS IN!
ur right tita eisha... may tama ka... kidding aside, if u will ask my opinion... when one relationship fails sometimes both parties are asking why diba? what went wrong? There are times kasi when nothing was wrong love just naturally fades away at kadalasan nang yayari ito to those people who are simply not meant for each other. tama ba?
i know it is difficult to comprehend why a relationship suddenly take unexpected turns, but aminin natin it always happens. sometimes people we really treasure are the ones taken away from us for a certain reason yun bang bigla na lang nangyayari like what uve said tita eisha, i mean nag kakaroon ba nang ibang dahilan. kaya tuloy minsan we have to stop asking why and just accept our fate.
if there is certainly in that end, then we should maybe stop being bitter and just be thankful that for onece in your life, we have try to love somebody and share our life.. sabi nga ng kanta..
letting go to know the truth, is not so hard to do, it's the heart that's got the will to open up for him to fill and trusting and believing him is all we've got to do, it's just the heart that's got to move for him to show his love that's been there even when we never cared take hold of his hand, let go and you'll understand......
haba na yata itong nasulat... opinyon ko lang po.... galing tita eish....
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Contentment is not getting what you want but being satisfied with what you have ...
kidding aside, if u will ask my opinion... when one relationship fails sometimes both parties are asking why diba? what went wrong? There are times kasi when nothing was wrong love just naturally fades away at kadalasan nang yayari ito to those people who are simply not meant for each other. tama ba?
